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Why Love Isn’t the Only Thing You Need for a Happy Marriage

Three key practices—self-awareness, self-regulation, and accountability—can help you manage conflict and build a healthier, more harmonious relationship.

Love is often seen as the foundation of a strong and happy marriage. It’s the spark that brings two people together and the force that keeps them connected. But while love is essential, it’s not the only ingredient for a successful and fulfilling relationship. Many couples who love each other deeply still struggle in their marriage because they lack other key elements that contribute to long-term happiness.

1. Communication

Love may bring people together, but without open and honest communication, misunderstandings and resentment can build up. Healthy marriages thrive on the ability to express feelings, needs, and concerns without fear of judgment or rejection. Effective communication also means being a good listener, truly hearing your partner’s perspective, and responding with empathy rather than defensiveness.

2. Mutual Respect

Respect is just as important as love in a marriage. It means valuing each other’s opinions, boundaries, and individuality. A marriage where one or both partners feel dismissed, belittled, or controlled can quickly become toxic, no matter how much love exists. Respect creates a safe and supportive environment where both partners can grow individually and as a couple.

3. Shared Values and Goals

Love alone cannot bridge the gap between two people with fundamentally different values, priorities, or life goals. While compromise is necessary in any marriage, couples who align on core beliefs—such as family dynamics, financial habits, and long-term aspirations—tend to experience greater harmony. A shared vision for the future helps partners work together rather than against each other.

4. Emotional and Physical Intimacy

A happy marriage requires more than just emotional love; it thrives on intimacy. This includes physical affection, meaningful conversations, and emotional support during tough times. Intimacy strengthens the bond between partners and fosters a sense of closeness that goes beyond just loving each other.

5. Commitment and Effort

Love may come naturally, but maintaining a happy marriage requires conscious effort. Challenges will arise, and during difficult times, love alone might not be enough to hold things together. Commitment means choosing each other every day, even when it’s hard, and putting in the work to nurture the relationship.

Love is a beautiful and powerful force, but it’s not the sole foundation of a happy marriage. A lasting and fulfilling relationship also requires communication, respect, shared values, intimacy, and unwavering commitment. By focusing on these elements, couples can build a marriage that not only lasts but truly thrives.

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Sarah Kenville, LMFT, MA, provides PREPARE/ENRICH premarital counseling and relationship counseling in Minneapolis, surrounding areas, and virtually.

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